Ways to say, “I love you”

• Make saying, “I love you” an unconditional and routine part of your day. Say “I love you” after diapering, at nap and bedtime, etc.

• Make your expression of love specific too. Make comments like, “I love the way you laugh,” or “One of the reasons I love you is because you sing with me.”

• Use words like "I'm sorry”, "please" and "thank you".

Ways to show your love

• Respond promptly when your child is unhappy. Give him a hug and assure him of your affection while talking about his feelings.

• Cuddle regularly. Physical touch is a powerful conveyor of love. Hold your child while he has a drink or watches a television program.

• Spend time alone with your child doing something that he loves.

• Share what you love with your child. Enriching activities like going to a ballgame or a zoo communicate that you want your child to love what you love.

• Provide your child with lots of opportunities to get to know other children and adults. Receiving love and acceptance from others is important too.

• Help your child discover what he does well. Finding a child’s areas of giftedness build his self esteem and capacity to love others.

Ways to undermine your love

• Yelling at your child or others.
• Spanking your child.
• Making belittling comments and over using sarcasm.

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